is to your energy field like "working
out at the gym" is to your body – it can fatigue or
energize you. In either case, your
body-mind needs to adjust and integrate.
Depending upon the
individual and the intensity of the session, the length of time
needed for this will vary. Remember, this is profound life altering
whether you are aware of it or not you will be affected. This work
also takes some physical energy to process, so you will definitely
need to rest your body and restore its nutritional reserves. Listen
your instincts: if you feel like sleeping - sleep. If you are
hungry - eat.
what you experience in or out of the
sessions, do not be alarmed. This work may jar loose and release to
the surface of your body-mind a lot of old suppressed energies,
emotions, thoughts and memories... generally referred to as
may make you feel nasty, gnarly, irritated, angry, upset,
fearful, sad, depressed, tired, ashamed, grief-stricken, heart
broken... the list goes on. Once this stuff arises to the surface of
your awareness, it then may be released into and transformed by the
are Not your
you may have been living with
your “stuff” for a very long time, and by now it
even define who you think you are, still... you are Not
don’t need to analyze, read
a book about, dramatize, create a story around or label your
"stuff”. Doing any of
these things is not going to make it leave you - or you leave it - any faster. Quite
the opposite - reinforcing your stuff like this will only make you that much more attached.
Giving all that energy, thought and attention to it is like feeding
more wood to a fire. Just be a witness and observe,
that’s it. Spirit is doing the work - you just need to get out of
resist, act out or fight your
Simply... Allow it to be.
With love and acceptance... it will fall away.
In most everyone there is a hurt, sad, lonely lost and confused little
child who was not given the loving attention, understanding and space
to fully feel and be. Now that you are an adult, when such unexpressed
emotions and memories come up to your awareness (especially within the
same container of a healing session) you have total permission to feel
and emote in any way you want or need.
are sad - you may cry.
If you are angry - you may rage.
If you are in grief - you may mourn.
If you are in fear – you may tremble.
If you are tired – you may rest.
Then finally may you allow yourself to feel
the fullness of your happiness, love and joy
While you are processing your stuff, be respectful of where others
around you are in their own lives. If you are engaged in the healing
process and your children or spouse is not, don’t try to lay this trip
on them. If they are not willing to work on their own stuff, it’s not
your task to force them to do so. Besides, we lead by example (not
coercion). The more you focus your attention on your own process, the
more you will create a positive energy field arournd you that will
allow others to be themselves. Don't force it - if you are meant to be
the catalyst for other peoples growth, it will happen.
As you become more engaged in the healing process, you may
start to notice that certain people around you are constantly trying to
reject, blame or “project” their stuff out and on to you. Try not to
take what they say or do personally - you are not responsible for how
they are reacting to your process. If others cannot handle your energy
and be present with you in a neutral, accepting loving way, that is
their problem and stuff, not yours. The best thing you can do for them
is to give them the space to be... while continuing to accept and take
responsibility for whatever is happening within YOU (including your
thoughts and feelings and whatever else). The more you can hold this
accepting loving compassionate space for yourself, the more those
around will sense and respond in kind. They may even start to follow
your example and take responsibility for their own lives too... but we
have to do it first.
All emotions we express are first created, felt and stored inside
The worst thing imaginable can be done to you, but if you do not
react in kind ("if you turn the other cheek"), it would not
energetically stick and you could walk away inwardly unscathed. Of
course, the event would still have happened, but you would not be
carrying it around inside. On the other hand, if you reacted to, for
example, anger energies sent you with anger thrown back in return,
before this anger even gets projected outwards, it is first taken on or created
somewhere in you, and its energy, this "stuff", then now becomes yours,
stuck, inside. To heal and be clear of these stuck negative emotions -
no matter how
uncomfortable or awful - we must first take full responsibility for
their creation and know that at this point, love them or hate them, these emotions are now ours.
Next, we must fully embrace them (warts and all) with all our spirit,
compassion, love, understanding and kindness. This is the alchemical
key to the transformation of all emotions.
“We all have our
own crosses to
might have been true for Jesus that without the crucifixion there would
not have been an Ascension (or a Christ as we now know it).
Fortunately, with the introduction of this healing work, we do not need
to feel the full force of a physical crucifixion in order to
heal and be cleared of all the old traumas and karma we hold. If the
re-experiencing of some physical, mental and emotional traumas are
necessary (and unavoidable), Spirit will cushion the blow by helping
you process your stuff in "the
dream time". Working this stuff out of your body-mind is done in any
number of other ways. Besides getting regular healing sessions, it is
also suggested that you do some physical activity every day - getting
your energy moving in this way will assist your releasing. Listen to
your body-mind and see how much activity it needs. There are many
options to choose from when selecting a physical activity: walking,
hiking, jogging, running, dance, yoga, weight lifting, gardening,
biking... whatever it is, go with what your body-mind feels comfortable
with. You may even feel like releasing this stuff by expressing it in a
variety of creative endeavors such as art, music, writing, journaling,
speaking, singing.... Keep listening to the still small voice within
and do what you feel you need to do. If anything,
gentle and kind to yourself.
Accepting ourselves may not be
easy at first, especially if you have taken on a belief system
that thinks “it’s not ok to feel this way”.
Some of us have been told to “suppress” or shove our
feelings down and out of the way so we can get on with our jobs. Especially for men, we have
learned that we cannot appear weak or too sensitive – expressing
we truly feel is not how we become successful (does a Superman
And we have learned that we must be strong for others (especially
of the opposite sex) and not appear insecure and emotional. But
there is nothing wrong with feeling and emoting. We are
human, not automatons. The stereotype that men are to be strong and
only women can cry is built on a lie. If a man can’t cry
can he really feel the depths of love? Is this what is wanted of
men in our society? (I hope not). On the other hand, perhaps this deception has
been perpetuated by certain segments of society who are out to manipulate us into doing
their dirty work. They know that if a man cant feel sad and cry, he
will not be able to feel love, and without love, he can go to war and kill with impunity. No
new revelation here - this has been going on for thousands of
The greatest warrior is s/he who can allow himself to cry and love – no
holding back of any feelings. This person can fully be present in all
that s/he does, whether it is to love or to war (when righteous). The
point is... we need to be 100% present on all levels and areas of our
being, not just the few we or society deems acceptible. This of course
is equally true for men and women, but women have had a longer time
practicing the feelings spectrum. But even women have some feelings
that society frowns upon them expressing (anger perhaps?). In any case,
when we can accept, reclaim and embrace any and all of our feelings (be
they smooth or crunchy, acceptible or ugly), we become Empowered and
Whole. This healing work can help support this empowerment process for
both men and women.
"battle" is to be
authentic with all our feelings, whatever the truth of them may be.
Embrace, love and accept them... and then and only then
will they be able to shift transform and release, thereby freeing us to
comes for another session,
your inner self may give you a nudge.
Perhaps the thought will cross your mind,
or you will just feel its time.
And if it is not a nudge you heed,
then a push or a prod you will receive.
works in mysterious ways to motivate you to do this
If you are unsure what your feelings or intuition is
telling you in this regard, feel free to email me and we can look
I suggest you keep a
journal to write down any and all experiences or sensations that occur
during your healing sessions. Include any inspirations, understandings,
messages, dreams, “coincidental” events and shifts in feelings that
come to you later in the week. This should help you be more consciously
aware of the subtle intricacies of how the healings are affecting you.
Writing this information down helps you to conceptually and mentally
integrate and track your progress. Journaling is also an excellent way
to communicate with and develop a stronger more conscious relationship
with your own Higher Self and spirit guides (see Dowsing
You are Unique
As we are all quite unique (and at different stages of
healing at any given time) so too will our experiences be
different. Any comparisons from one session to another - or even from
one person to another - would not give justice to the unique
reality and truth present within each moment and each person (none of us are
doing the same life trip - so try not to compare or
assured, during and immediately after a
healing, anything you experience within your body-mind-spirit is
exactly what you need in that moment (even if it is perceived as
"negative"). And mysteriously enough, you will find that by the next session everything will have
shifted ! This is what is so delicious about this work... from one
session to the next one never knows what new and unique experiences
and opportunities will open up. It could be that in just
one more session... in just one little energetic turn around the
corner...your life could be miraculously shifted into something new
and entirely different.... How exciting is that?!
Energies - An Exercise
Emotions = Energy in Motion
emotions get stirred up, they need
to be exercised, moved or "processed" out. One way to do this is
through a practice called the
“Latihan” from a spiritual group called “Subud”
means "Exercise" in Indonesian). This practice is done individually
groups (in Subud they have the women do their Latihan
from the men, which I suppose would eliminate sexual tension and
you begin your Latihan, you need to
create a sacred safe space, preferably in an empty room within the
privacy of your own home (or even out in nature), insulated enough so that any noises or
movements will not disturb others. You may either stand or sit,
eyes closed or open... and set the intention:
myself permission to totally let go
people in Subud simply say
“Begin”, but you can say
whatever you want).
Stay in this space within the set time that you designate, let’s
say for 20 or 30 minutes. Until you get the hang of it, I suggest you
do this practice only 2 times a week. Nothing may happen the first
times you try this, but when you are in this space for the full 20 or
30 minutes with conviction and sincerity, you are giving your spirit
permission to come through... and it will do so, slowly or all at once,
depending on your clarity and openness. This exercise is (among other
things) about “letting go” of your mental controls, constraints and
judgments. The more you can trust in yourself and let go, the more you
will allow the inner self and the Higher Power to come in, take over
and process your stuff out.
During this time, allow your body to move however it wants. And
your mind... allow it to express however it too wants, speaking
non-sensical words, or vocalizing primal sounds, as loud as you feel...
sing... yell... scream.... just let it all out. Don't force anything to
happen. And if you are quiet, and physically still, that's absolutely
OK. Don't judge, just ALLOW! Trust that once you have set and
reinforced the parameters of your intention, what needs and wants to
come out will do so of its own accord – you just need to allow it to
happen, stand out of the way, let it flow. Don’t judge or control. If
you do this process regularly, this will help more deeply ground,
connect and integrate the energies and consciousness of your inner and
outer being, which will make it flow easier each time you do this. In
my own practice, I do something similar to the Latihan in the dances I
attend (5 Rythyms, Soul Motion, Ecstatic Dance). I dive within and find
where or what consciousness is drawing my attentions too, and dance the
energy of it, around up and out. It's an amazing practice!
grew up, many of us learned not to
be emotional around people, so we forced and shoved all that freely
flowing, spontaneous energy and life further down and out of the
way. Every time we did that, another part of us died or weakened a
little bit more. When you do this practice, you are
learning to trust yourself with your own emotions. When you do this
in Subud (or some other group, for me its in the dance community) you are learning to trust in and share
your emotions with others (it's also a practice in developing healthy boundaries). Eventually you will
be able to do this practice anywhere and anytime with anyone.
If you combine this Latihan practice or any other practice for
that matter with my healing work, your path will unfold that much
faster. You can of course just do this healing work and that would be
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