To live without resistance is to live
Accept and embrace life, even its aches and pains...
and you will be at one with the flow, healthy, happy, in love and enlightened.
To be in a human body means we have resistances...
and to survive in this
world we keep them around.
Resistance is what
maintains the illusion of me and you, yours and mine.
Resistance is the wall
of "No" that keep life out
(and everyone has said
"No" so many times it is now the default).
Resistance is the
feelings of aloneness that keep us apart.
Resistances have accumulated within us for a very long while..
and not just for a few
lives but since the beginning of time.
After all the times we have given power to
our resistances, they have now become so deeply programmed and hard wired into every aspect of our being, that to remove them becomes very very difficult. And even if we wanted to let some of them go, and we mentally affirm
“Resistance be gone”, it is not
that easy... by this time they have become our masters and tell us what to do.
|We cannot be free to follow our
if fear is running
if we want to live with
no holes bared no holding back...
to have a pure direct
experience of life
“as it is” and not as we think...
to be 100%
aware open and responsive in every moment...
to release our fears, our no's, our illusions, our resistance.
Resistances are what our ego-minds
have chosen to “take on” as truth
as mental "interpretation" and emotional energetic
everything we add above and beyond what is real.
all these interpretations and charges (whether “positive”
“negative”) is the typical response of the ego-mind when
face to face with reality
“as it is”. And if we accumulate enough of
these interpretations and charges, our reaction to life become
and more resistances we have inside us, the more our resistances begin
to “react” for us, but not only react, they begin
to take on a life of their own and choose for us. And just like a computer program (or virus more
like) our resistances may automatically run whether we want them to or
are those irritating sore spots in our psyche.
Just like a button - if someone pushes you react:
"You hurt my feelings"
"I don't like that"
Someone can say the most
innocent thing and "off" we go.
Or blame it on that extra pot of coffee, our terrible
childhood, or some unpleasant news... they all press those hidden buttons. If we are not
approaching life experiences as opportunities for self awareness and
growth, we will be in resistance and receive them as threats.
these “resistance programs” have taken over and (to
one degree or another) are altering and clouding our perceptions
of reality and consequently cause us to operate from a restricted
“less than” mentality of "poverty consciousness”.
time our ego mind fills us with yet another limited conception of
reality, another filter is added on to another filter... till
eventually, we perceive from behind “a glass darkly”. The
consequence of having all these filters or walls of "protection" around
us is that they potentially keep love life and happiness from reaching
and touching us.
What is locking these resistances into our being?
pain, attachment, anger, hurt, insecurity, misunderstanding... the
list goes on.
One of the
reasons for this web site is to help address these resistances as
directly as possible through this medium.
the form of my words
(which I grant has its limitations)
I share with you my teachings about spirituality and healing.
fear and mistrust
I share with you who I am and what I am about
that you may come to know a little about me as a real person.
your anger, attachments, hurts and insecurities
I share with you this healing work and the Spirit behind it
(which I hope you will come to know the boundlessness of).
This is the
best I have to offer
but it is nothing without your participation.
Processing through your resistances is often uncomfortable,
but as they say "the truth
shall set you free".
(or is it "The truth shall set you free, but not before
really pissing you off" ?)
Lord, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
the courage to change the things I can,
and the wisdom to know the difference.
Rarely does healing occur on
its own within the vacuum of our own space. Most
times we must seek and petition a "Greater Power" that can
intervene between us and our negative
thoughts, disharmonious energies, and resistant feelings. This has
traditionally been the role of the Guru, Guide, Priest or Healer..
whose own lower self and ego are more closely surrendered and aligned
to their Higher Self and Universal Mind.
who you attract as your spirit ally, you must bring the spirit of:
Humbleness - a
willingness to receive and openness to be guided.
Trust - in whom your Self and Spirit Guides have directed you to.
Faith - in the outcome of the work and in the process.
Surrender - a sincere willingness to let go of your old
And let me be clear, this "surrender" is not to the human
ego or personality of whomever you work with, but to the
Higher Self for whom they represent.
I asked God to make handicapped children whole.
"Their spirit is whole - the body is only temporary".
I asked God to grant me patience.
"Patience is a byproduct of tribulations - it isn't granted, it is
I asked God to give me happiness.
"I give you blessings. Happiness is up to you".
I asked God to spare me pain.
"Suffering draws you apart from worldly cares and brings you closer to
I asked God to make my spirit grow.
"I will prune you to make you grow".
I asked for all things that I might enjoy life.
"I will give you life so that you may enjoy all things".
I asked God to help me LOVE others as much as he loves me.
"Ahhhh, finally you have the idea".